Ciara and Russell Wilson are one of entertainment’s hottest new couples. After nasty breakups the singer and NFL quarterback are looking for a bond stronger than just physical. During a recent interview with San Diego’s Rock Church, Russell shared the couple’s controversial decision to abstain from sex.
“I said to her – and she completely agreed – ‘Can we love each other without that?’ If you can love somebody without that, then you can really love somebody.”
However, the Seahawks star made it clear that they know it won’t be easy.
“I ain’t gonna lie – I need ya’ll to pray for us. Because I know you have seen her on the screen now. If there’s a 10, she’s a 15,” he joked. “Pray for me, keep my mind clear, keep my heart clear.”
After the tears and heartache of difficult breakups, it’s important to grow from what you learned in order to have healthier relationships in the future. If they feel that abstaining will make their bond even stronger then more power to them. However, abstaining isn’t easy for most, especially for adults who have already done the do. They are both adults who have been in serious long term relationships. Russell was married and Ciara has a child so they also aren’t kids who aren’t missing what they never had either. Could you be, or have you ever been, in relationship where you and your mate abstained from sex? Is sex mandatory? Thoughts?